Raising a child 10 years old
Education on the character of the child has a decisive influence.
Only the study of the individual characteristics of the child will allow in the future to educate and re-educate his character and get the desired result. Raising a child of 10 years old is a rather complicated process. Children at the age of 10 are already closely observing the life of their parents, analyzing and trying on all the actions of adults on themselves.
The main problems of educating young people
The world for young people is sometimes quite complicated. A 10-year-old child may have a friend, but relationships at school tend to be competitive and complex. More advanced children may be influenced by friends in their social circle. Often, children are deliberately fenced off from spending time with their families. In the process of raising a 10-year-old child, an adult should remember that at this age he begins to form both psychologically and physiologically. Children at this age spread their wings, and parents need to allow them to show their independence.
The main problem of upbringing young people is that at this age the behavior of children sharply worsens. They are stubborn, pugnacious, deliberately show themselves from the worst side, show undisguised aggression. Children are trying in every way to show their independence, trying to free themselves from the control and guardianship of adults. Intra-family relations also have a huge influence on the formation of individuality in this period.
When raising a 10-year-old child, adults can feel the emotional cooling that manifests itself in the relationship of daughters with fathers, and sons with mothers. In incomplete families, all the forces of one parent are directed at the child. This can cause emotional and psychological problems.
Ways to educate the character of a child 10 years old
A child of ten years old will be glad if adults consider him old enough to solve some of his life problems himself.
However, the child, of course, will not be able to fully organize life without the help of his parents. Therefore, during a conversation with a child, an adult must find a solution that suits everyone.
In the process of raising a 10-year-old child, you can invite him to draw up a plan that will provide for the time needed for hobbies, rest, school affairs and household chores.
To educate a child's character, it is advisable to single out two or three cases. He will oversee these specific tasks, such as cleaning his room. However, do not overload the child, otherwise he will not cope with the task at hand, and this will cause a storm of protest.
When raising a child of 10 years old, you should not follow his every step, as at an earlier age. But during this period, parents need close contact with teachers, with the school, with the friends of their daughter or son.
In order to achieve the desired behavior, it is important that the child wants it himself. When a child develops a desire for change, you need to help him choose the right way to correct his behavior. At the same time, it is necessary to closely monitor the success of a son or daughter, and if necessary, help him, encourage, constantly support in him the desire to change, faith in his own strength.
When parents, in the process of raising a child for 10 years, allow him everything and do not object to him in anything, then as a result a narcissistic, stubborn egoist may grow up who will not recognize any authorities.
At this age, children pay a lot of attention to their clothes, hairstyle. Therefore, it is very important to instill in them the correct understanding of elegance during this period. It is necessary to explain to the child that elegance is based on accuracy, simplicity and the ability to choose clothes so that they perfectly emphasize individuality.
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